Something that i don't get is
how dating lost its spark? Online dating has become the norm in the Big New
York City and its probably because of timing and the fact no one really has
time to ask "Hey! How you doing?". The truth is online dating
is a normal social media to really get to know some one, is it taking away from
actual meeting or actually being human? According to an article posted on ListdDose.com,
stated "How serious can we get for
someone we don’t know in the real world? There may be for a few days an intense
feeling of connection and bonding, but this is short lived. In the long run, it
is almost impossible that both the hearts are equally loyal and serious for
each other. One person may get very serious but the other one may only have an
infatuation, or perhaps not even that. Online dating is often like a tool for
passing time, flirting or fulfilling one’s emotional and sensual needs for a
temporary basis. Seriousness is terribly rare and un-guaranteed in virtual
relationships. Therefore, online dating’s another flaw is the lack of
seriousness." It could be just a lack of seriousness.
There is
actually a couple reasons why people think online dating is not such a good
idea, even if a friend recommended it or you just want to break free from
having to actually meet them in weird bars or clubs. Dating online is most
likely not to last, may get awkward, and Insecurity. The truth is that if you
are talking to someone, they are most likely talking to other girls as well. A
sad story on Jo Elliott published by Dailymail.uk, a successful woman with a
job, and her own home. Jo tried a couple over ten sites and dated about forty
men, but after a serious heartbreak and hundreds of dollars lost on
subscriptions and fee, she is still alone. She stated, "‘In many ways,
internet dating is a great way to meet people, but it’s such a whirlwind of
highs and lows,’ she says. ‘I’ve met some lovely men, but I’ve also met many
who lied about themselves and their intentions."
Its a 50/50 chance in finding true love or fake love. My best advice is to try...
Sources:
http://listdose.com/top-10-reasons-why-dating-online-is-a-bad-idea/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2307026/How-online-dating-killing-commitment-Millions-women-think-love-just-click-away-internet-romance-ruin-chance-lasting-relationship.html
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